Wednesday, March 25, 2009

For those who didn't get it here is an email update that I sent out just recently...

Last month at this time, we were in South Africa. But thankfully we were able to come home a week later with a healthy little girl. Since then she has been amazingly healthy. She has been back to school and loving her friends. We are so thankful to have her healthy. She turns 7 this next week March 24 and she is growing up. My baby is not the baby anymore.

We have been back to "normal" life here. Bob has been teaching his classes and weekly going out to the local village to do train people deeper in God's word. Spring break for the college is coming and in 2 weeks he will be taking 6 students and Josh Ketchum (who is from San Diego working here at African Bible college as a operations manager) to Tanzania to work with our friend Pastor Eric Mukwenda in Arusha for 10 days. He will be taking Blessings, Joseph, Lewis, Grace, Mercy and Shonduri. They will be traveling by car. They will be doing outreach as missionaries. They will experience cultural shock as they will not understand the language and have to taste new foods. I am so excited to hear the stories. It will be amazing for them to interact in a brand new culture. A team from San Diego will be meeting them and working with them as they serve in Tanzania

As for Analise she has gotten her first haircut and really is growing up. She still is at home with me. She is loving that she can be with mama but really craves to go to school. Next year she will be at the academy full time at the preschool class.

Well- what is happening with me (Amy). I have been busy with this and that. I love teaching my bible study at the college. We are working on growing deeper and being open and honest about Christ and life. I am also helping with many of the college happenings. Also I am still helping out at the clinic with xray. I have been helping Bob at the High School talking to those girls about sex issues, what it is to have a relationship with Christ and fight for their futre. I also am working on being a better mama and better wife. It is a journey!

We have some prayer requests...
- For safety as Bob and the team travels to Tanzania, Us girls will stay in Lilongwe while they are there.

- We would remain healthy. That last sickness was too much. We don't cold here and there but we really don't like the flu. :)

- We were hoping to come home this summer for a few months to visit family and friends, but have been turned around financially due to Nya's hospital visit in South Africa and because of a few other financial strains. Tickets to go home will be around $9000. At this point, we will have to wait another year, already having been here two years. Please pray for the Lords provision.


Thank you for loving us and praying for us. Love the Stauffachers - Bob, Amy , Nya Beans and Analisey.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

The life on the Stauffy farm...


Well 2 new additions have made it here to the campus farm. Above are the 2 baby pigs that have been added ( bob and josh added). Along with the deer and the dog (now 2 piglets) that we have and neighbors have 3 turkeys, 3 bunnies, 10 chickens and about 5 dogs on campus. we are actually growing these pigs to have some baby back ribs. Sorry those who are animal lovers.

Here is a picture of Kim and I. That is Jordan's mom from Zimbabwe. She is a science teacher at the academy and a truly lovely friend. She helped us tremendously when Nya was sick and she barely even knew us. I love people like that. Just like family after a week of knowing them. I have been fortunate to have many people in my life over the years like that. ( you know who you are!) Anyways here is a couple pictures of life here...




Nya, Jordan, and Analise and the dogs and Dainty Toes our bush buck deer!




Pork Chop and baby back ribs! That is what we see when we see them. They are truly pigs!


Nya and Dainty Toes! She loves our girls and runs from any person that is big.


My beautiful girlie Miss Analisey! She is so delicious!




Here is picture of Bob preparing with his weekly village outreach team! They are such an amazing group of people that want to transform Africa person by person! The man that has crutches had polio when he was little.



Such a sweet girl that stopped by! Her name is Funa! My girls love her! Funa is good friend and is so refreshing!

Here is my pink girl! Tina! She has been in many of my pictures! Her and Funa come over very regularly! One day I just have a day in the life of pictures So you can see who all comes over! lots of love- amy louise










Life in the rainy season...greenery and allergies

Here is the front gate from our driveway at the ABC Campus...



The rainy season is about to end. It has been an amazing rainy season. This is picture above is our house on campus... See how green that plant life is...






After this being my second rainy season, I love Africa rain even more. Something amazing about it. It gives life - it really does to plants and people. There is no real irrigation system here so it really gives life and feeds the people. Unfortunately is not going to be a good year for food. The Malawians plant maize ( corn) here and that is there staple of food - they eat it with every meal. It is called nsima. (look we even like it. we meaning Bob, nya, and analise! Me still trying to) They plant and fertilize their crops but the problem is the fertilizer went up double the price so many many could not afford to fertilize their crops. So the food that plant to eat all year will only last 1/2 the year or less. Below is a picture that I borrowed from a friend here on campus... http://robbinsabroad.blogspot.com/ She captures life here so great!



This is a picture is of some cute mamas with healthy maize but bad maize is yellow and half the size. It usually doesn't produce a corn husk. Sad no food for cute families. This broken world. makes me a bit upset. But It is not heaven yet until then Life is not easy! But we do have the hope of heaven and that really I know from the bottom of my being that He uses all things for good in our lives when we give them to Him. Beauty from Ashes. Seriously - i have stories in my life that only God of the entire universe could use for good.



Hmm.... Moving on to the next story.... Really this is light conversation and a big change in topics . You see this beautiful tree... They are everywhere on campus and town. They are gorgeous. Just another tree that flowers... Well this one gives me allergies. Lovely. never had allergies until last year. It is a pollinating tree. But boy it beautiful. So beautiful but yet such a headache - really!
Well - that all for now! just snippets of life in the land called Africa. The land I now call home. (Home away home) I am finding myself loving this land even more than before with this rawness of life and allergies. lots of love- amy louise
























Saturday, February 28, 2009

What a journey...



The blog has been silent due to a whirlwind nightmare that began about 2 weeks ago... Feb 19th. Nya began with getting sick with a fever and throwing up. She began to dehydrate quickly. She was put here at ABC Clinic and put on a drip for malaria and antibiotics. It wasn't confirmed that she had malaria. But it was best to treat her if we could. The 2 doctors that were on Campus came and checked on her regularly. She continued to have kidney issues. It seemed to get better and then at 4 am on Thursday we had more throwing up and fever. So we decided in her condition that was not good she really needed to Medically Evacuated to South Africa. We were able to get same day tickets and were sent down south. It is about a 2 1/2 hour plane flight. She continued to throw up on the way down. We arrived in the Johannesburg airport , rented a car and drove to the Hospital and she was admitted that night. She was severely dehydrated and we were put in the pediatric ward for 7 days. She finally got better by the 6th day after been tested negative for everything under the sun and was released. Seriously due to major prayer warriors we have a healthy bouncing 6 almost 7 year old. They never found anything wrong. It is a mystery. So we are just thankful to be this side of it. That was a nightmare, but God was gracious to carry us through and we are so thankful to be back in Malawi living the simple life. The students at the college have come by continually so excited to have us back. We learned that we are apart of a big big family here and in the states. Nya was sad to leave South Africa because all she experienced was the hospital while Analise and I "had fun" ! But she came back here and was so excited to come and see her friends at school. We waited until the end of the day to go say hi. Below is the reception that she had... Truly loved and missed..... Here is a typical African tea party. Jordan Hulley , Analisey and Nya yesterday were loving life as I served tea to them. This is Nya's new buddy. They are are in the same class as you can see in the group shot... She was born in Zimbabwe, but her parents were kicked off their farm at gunpoint when this whole crisis with Mugabe began and they moved to Zambia. Due to lack of work, they have moved here to Malawi. These girls are 2 peas in a pod. It is so sweet to see them play all so great (even with a little Sister who ruins things)
So our the life marches on. We are back to being busy with students and teaching and pouring out our little lives here. We are so thankful for all your love and support as we had this going on. We really felt like God's arms were carrying us through. Please continue to pray for strength as we continue on. thank you again and so sorry it has been so long since I posted. I will definetly do more as we are back in malawi! love - amy louise

Sunday, February 15, 2009

just in busyland...

Hi! We are just in life right now full on schedule of teaching and connecting. We have had such a busy last year we decided to just have a quiet month. Well- at least in the evenings. Nya has needed some one and one time with us to hang with just family and also get some quality in practicing reading. So here are some couple snaps of life... Below is some of the junior college students hanging out before class.


Nya holding a hedgehog that she caught. Bad picture of her but she wanted to show it.

Some of my ladies in my bible study that I teach. We are working through some videos and discussing them. So good to be stretched.



Here is Bob's high school Bible class. Students are studying Case for Faith and they say they are loving it. These students are from America, Canada, Taiwan, Egypt, Portugal, Zimbabwe, Germany, south Korea. It was valentines day at the school then! Hence the rose in one of the boy's mouth.
So i want to look at my friends blog if you have chance. She always is thinking the same way I do about life here. She is great at pictures and capturing life here in Malawi.
She captured some of the main pictures that I wanted to get for you about the harvest of maize here. And the greenery of the rain.
Well- enjoy the blog and will update again. Amy Louise

Sunday, February 08, 2009

Living a little bit of life with a whole lot of perspective...

At least 4 times a day I think of something that I should write about. The way life is here in daily life in Africa, how we are all the same but just a bit different, why does the world not just do everything the same, why Target is only in America and things of those nature. I think oh that would be great to write about and then about 15 minutes later I forget.

But one thing that keeps on coming back that I should write about is living in perspective. Right now I live in the perspective of hopefully coming back to visit San Diego and Spokane and all the in between places in about 4 months. Seriously after almost 2 years - Home has become a huge fantasy. I can just feel home in my brain, I can smell, I can taste it - oh need it and I so miss it. We need come home and see family and friends. Also for Nya and Analise to see grandparents and cousins and aunt and uncles and feel connected to our friends too.

But as I live here daily with those Home sensors always on... I can handle the no electricity, the leaking roof due to too much rain, being exposed to so much poverty that I can't help it all... and I can handle the small things that add up when you are not in your home country with the perspective that Home is close. When things are different than you are used to and you have to live everyday life in it you find yourself questioning everything? Why does blah, why does blah... It doesn't help you but you get a little bit more aggravated about it and you think you have the better way of handling it. But with the perspective that I am going home in a few months, I find myself going why ask why?... it is amazing with that perspective that i have patience for things that I didn't have earlier. With my eyes on the goal, (America) I can put up with the things that exhaust a foreigner. But i find myself living in the future than just rooting in and digging in the right here right now! I remind myself - right here - right now!

But funny when I think about this - it is deeper than just me. It is about me - looking forward to home- but really it should be me looking forward to Heaven my real home. It really is the same thing. My eyes are on the prize (Paul wrote about that in the bible) with Heaven being the prize.

It is different when an immigrant comes to a new land to make it home- really there is no looking back, there is just the promise of a new thing, a home that will be in home in that foreign land. But for me I always have the promise of the coming back to my home land as a missionary when I live in a foreign land, it is just the when am I coming back.

With that I need to be living with that same way - whose hope is in Heaven. And as a person who lives in the Shadow of eternity - the little things shouldn't bother me, shouldn't add up and wear on me. They do of course ( I haven't arrived at perfection) , but I still need to live in the here and now but with perspective of heaven right around the corner.

Anyways- just wanted to share deep thoughts with you... Lots of love- amy louise

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Just need prayer....

Hi- yesterday we got a call that Bob's grandpa had passed away. Please be praying for his family as they process this loss. It is always hard to be away as these things happen. Bob's parents did get to say good bye so at least that happened. It was Bob's dad's dad.

Thanks- amy louise

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Happy New Year! It has been a long time...

Wow it is amazing how a month flies by and then I realize I haven't blogged. We were in CapeTown. We had a great time. It is amazing to see God's amazing beauty all around the world. Captivating. We came back with things up and going. Bob is preparing for his classes next week. He will be teaching... a Bibleology class ( an apologetics class - to understand the Bible and how it is put together), 1 and 2 Corinthians, and Christian Education for Adults. Also still teaching at the high school the bible class. I will continue on teaching the College Senior Bible Study class.

Between Bob teaching classes and me with xray and teaching we are able to make a small dent here in Malawi. Some days I wish I could change the world. I wish I make it a better place for all. I wish I could give it all away and it would be enough. But one person or even 2 people can make a small difference and that is why we are here to help educate and advance people's lives. Without education, things only stay the same and people live in 3rd world poverty. It is always a pleasure to be able to give our skills away.( Thank you to those who make it possible for us to be here and do that!)


Things that are planned to happen this next couple of months besides regular life...
-Bob is taking 7 students up to Tanzania working with a local church in Arusha. Teaching students to look and see that the world is a huge place where lives can be changed.
-Work in a Dzuwa village that we are friends with the people that work there, helping show Jesus film and outreach.
-Help with the local village that we have been doing outreach with students
-Work with babies at a Local orphanage
-Continue to disciple and encourage the students on the this campus!
-Hopefully be able to come to the States in early June for 2 months! That is really exciting for us since we will have been gone for almost 2 YEARS! We miss our family and friends!

Thanks for praying and encouraging us as we are here in Malawi! I will post pictures soon! Amy Louise

Sunday, December 21, 2008

A Christmas Party...

We just came back from the Amassador's House for the American Embassy Holiday party! I know it sounds official but it is really just simple fun. Food, caroling and seeing Santa! Here is a couple of pictures!

Lots of love- amy louise

The journey of motherhood...

I am such a proud mama of my girls but here is a day I am so proud of my cute daughter Nya. They had a swimming competition for the entire school and she had to swim in a relay... So here Nya is getting ready to dive in and swim! They won and were so proud of themselves. My friend captured this on her amazing camera!

You know as the days that Nya and Analise get older the journey of motherhood grows deeper. I love these deep moments. Nya was so nervous to swim but has now caught the passion to be a swimmer. We will see how Nya does in the years to come. I never knew that swimming is a big part of the community here.
Speaking of water and swimming. We were out of water for about 2 1/2 days. Thank you for praying! It is amazing how much you need water for everyday life. We are thankful for the simple things! Lots of love- amy louise


Wednesday, December 17, 2008

We need water...

We love water don't we. The world needs it and so do we. Well -we really would appreciate some prayer over here. The people that run the water for the city decided to go on strike and turned off all the water for the entire city including us. We have reserve tanks but that will not last for long. This has never happened before here so hopefully they will sort it out soon. But in the mean time alot of people suffer due to this. They say it could last for at least 5 days or probably more! I would appreciate some prayers for that. We really live in Africa! Thank you in advance! love- amy louise on behalf of the city Lilongwe

Monday, December 15, 2008

So below are some videos of the Christmas Program...

So the first video is of the dance recital. There was a girl that helped bring analise back to back at the end. She was sick so Analise at the end was left out in front. It was priceless! Also in the other video is Analise winging it. She didn't know the song and didn't know the hand motions. So cute!

the christmas dance recital

Nya and Analise ringing those Bells...

Saturday, December 13, 2008

I am in Africa...

So the other day, I am driving down the road trying to tune something in the radio. As I scanned the stations I was looking for something familar. Many times I come across a old doo wop song from the 50's they are playing, or Phil Collins or any American song comes on and you are just asking your self "where do I live that they are playing that song all the way over here?" I guess I never imagined I would be here listening to anything familar. One day i was driving and on came "Lion King music you know the Circle of Life song" So I just felt, wow! how many times have I heard that music and imagined Africa. Now I am in Africa, listenting to it.
Anyways- as I was searching for something familar. I came to a fun Malawian station that made me remember that I am in Africa. I sometimes crave for familarity that I want Africa to be like home (America) But if Africa was America then it would not be Africa. Oh but my story continued as I had to go to 3 stores to find an ingredient for a dinner I was making. This is me thinking "Why do I have to go to 3 stores to accomplish something simple. If I was in America (oh America) I would only have go to one store" But then I reminded myself I would not be in Africa! Oh man I go through such journeys of life here - don't I?

I think one thing that we (at least me) can't do is get away from is our culture, Our culture is American over here in Africa. Maybe even white American. But American through and through. The way we live life is American and what our culture exposed to us since we are born is American. We will never be African. We will try and live like Africans, eat like Africans, talk like Africans and live over here forever we will still never be Africans, But as the years go on it is easier to live like Africans, easier to eat like Africans, and easier even talk like Africans. So one day we can become American -Africans but I understand we will never be anything but American. But the journey is so much deeper than American or African - The culture that transends all this is my relationship with Christ. So I think I need to be calling my self to be politically correct, "Christian Euro-American African" as it get easier to live, eat and talk African. (Malawian really)

Deep! I know but as I teach my class of senior women, I am learning about so many things that disturb me about cultural traditions here, the way children are abused, how women are treated because of culture, how men treat families and how the women do things to themselves because culturally that is what is expected of them. Some christian women do things that don't line up with Christ. Like sleeping with Pastors because they will forgiven of sins if they do.
Don't get me wrong, I believe American culture has many major problems too. It is just overwhelming when you are exposed to a whole new reality check of a new culture and there is not much you can do because you don't belong to that culture. Remember I will never be African. But as I prayed for days for insight on this story that I carried - I felt so burdened - how do I change culture that is not Christ like. But I so appreciated the Lord saying to me. Duh! you can't only I can! Oh thanks for that reminder! Dumb me thinking I could do it again by myself. There I go again, trying to change the world by myself. The verse I felt that He gave me to share with these women was this -

Romans 12:2
Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

and 2 Peter 2:11
Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul.


Ahh! I am free to be any culture I want be on this earth but as a daughter of Christ - I am and will always be first a christian then my earthly culture will come....

"Christian- English-Swedish and all different types of european cultures-American-girl who is living in Africa"
"sold out and serving Jesus daily- Euro- American- African"
"a really yucky person who sees how much Christ has transformed and continues to transform me from the inside out Euro- American living in Africa who sometimes misses living in America"

Ok so that is enough of my blahhing to you all! Serving Him on this planet called earth- amy louise

Thursday, December 11, 2008

The dancing girls....

So last night was the Christmas program here at ABC. The girls sang songs and did a dance to "what Child is this." So cute.

Show me your ballerina arms. That is what they did...


Here is about 200 hundred of the 300 kids in the program. Amazing job they did.


Analise had to sit with the big kids because she was in the dance. So she hung with her favorites. Megan has been here the same time we have. We all love her. Here is when I was trying to get the girls attention. Girls look at me and smile. Girls, Girls! This was the response. major distraction... I was too.





Some one said let me take of picture of you two! So here we are!


The parent section! Loved being apart of that crowd and not on the other side. Nya said she was so nervous and Analise it didn't even faze her.

Here they are waiting patiently. As you can see Megan in the background. Analise was in her lap most of the 2 hours.
So I am going to put on videos of the dance and songs. Now Analise in the dance was so cute when the song ended she forgot what to do and so she just stood there. Also she knew none of the songs and she did a great job of winging it. I love it! Well I just wanted to let you in on last night. Today was the last day of school for 4 weeks. We love the long vacations! We will be refreshing not having to be up and dressed by 7am.
We love you all! love amy louise

Girls Night Out...

So 3 teachers and I took out 11 high schoolers out to dinner. It was just simple fun. Get dressed up and hang out.
Here are the girls...


teenagers are still the same every where... Cute girls...
Here the teachers... we are Me, Annie Williams, Bethany Robbins and Marley Evans.

It was just fun to go out and have fun together. Tonight is the Christmas Program. Analise and Nya are doing their ballet performance. Cute pictures promised soon. Amy Louise


The deer...

She is all grown up. She is about a year old now. She only lets the girls touch her....


Analise looks beautiful there.
Love you all- amy louise

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Some things that have been happening around here...

Christmas Decorating happened on December 1st. Here is Nya and Analise ( as you can see we are freezing our tails off over here) :) and Tina in the pink and and Mafunase in the blue came for the fun. After we decorated we were so hot we took them swimming. It was such a fun memory to decorate and swim within 2 hours.

Love this picture of Analise!

Here is my Senior College Bible Study. It is Finals week and boy let me tell you about my final. Bake a Cake and watch a Christmas movie as the cakes baked...

Here they are watching Elf! Such a true christmas classic It was fun to see their reactions to the americanese of it. The ladies loved it and they all passed. I am one tough teacher I know!

Here is the World Religions class getting ready to go to the Hindu temple. As they sat in my living room waiting for the bus to arrive discussing the excitement of what was in store for them. So fun to be apart of.

My friend that lost her husband went back to the states today. So thank you for all your prayers for them. Well- lots of love and chat with you soon. Amy Louise









Monday, December 08, 2008

The deepest ache...

This last week a missionary friend of mine lost her husband in a tragic car accident. They are our age with 3 little girls. He was dropping off food for some pastors on a road we have traveled many times. As he was coming to a trading center (a small town) and a car lost control while speeding and killed him instantly. Ugh! So please pray for her. Here is a picture of their family blog... http://www.teamwithafrica.org/ I couldn't sleep the first night that I heard it. It was too raw. Too close to home and so overwhelming to understand why. They came the same time we came last year and have gone through the same journey we here. They were teaching at a bible college and just loving on Malawians (doing what we are doing). it has been very intense this week. Then my other friend here just lost her baby at 8 months pregnent. A baby boy. Ugh! Death so real and so raw. So please pray for her and her husband. Their names are Nick and Rudo.
So please pray for us as we have been loving, praying and being a support to our friends as they search to find God real during this time. Love- amy louise